My name is Leslie Adamson (front row, first seat on the left). I’m the founder of Trinity Anchored Formation, a certified Catholic Coach, Catholic convert, and adult Third Culture Kid. I’m a wife, mother, grandmother, and caregiver. But above all, I’m a beloved daughter of the Most Holy Trinity—a truth I didn’t fully embrace until my mid-50s. Now, that identity shapes everything I do!
”BEFORE I KNEW JESUS”
By Leanna Crawford
My story is a lifelong journey of healing after decades of searching—searching for identity, belonging, relationship, and purpose. As someone who grew up between cultures and outside the Church, without human formation or spiritual guidance, I know what it’s like to live in the in-between—to feel unseen, unanchored, and never fully at home. It’s a lonely place marked by confusion, disconnection, and a deep ache to be known, understood, loved and securely settled. You begin to wonder: Who am I, really? Where do I belong? Why am I here? Even though that stuckness stemmed from a lifetime of emotional and spiritual undernourishment—growing up unchurched and fragmented by environments where human formation was never a priority—through God’s grace and unfathomable mercy, it didn’t stay that way.
And it doesn’t have to stay that way for you either.
Everything began to change for me when I healed my true identity in Christ, experienced genuine belonging, cultivated deeply connected relationships with God, myself and others, and was awakened to my God-given purpose— all through the Catholic Church, the blessed Sacraments, sacred Scripture, and a healthy embodiment of my vocational role and apostolic mission. A powerful outpouring of supernatural grace jump-started my transformation, paired with a handful of diagnostic assessments, tools, and frameworks that helped me uncover blind spots, behavioral patterns, and possibilities I didn’t even know existed. This has been—and still is—a painful yet profoundly rewarding path of self-ordered transformation, ultimately leading to the uncovering of four life-preserving anchors in my life.
🛟⚓️ Over the years, I’ve refined a number of diagnostic assessments, tools, frameworks, and soft skills that were instrumental in the early stages of my own healing journey. I began by carefully selecting only those that the Catholic Church did not condemn, are still respected within modern psychology, and have a proven track record. From there, I prayerfully integrated them into a proprietary blend—what I now call the Trinity Colored ID℠ profiles. Diagnostic tools like these are invaluable in the early stages of self-discovery. They help individuals name their God-given personality traits so they can begin to claim them and aim them—transforming inner obstacles into bridges that strengthen their capacity to love God, themselves, and others. This is what the first ‘life-preserving’ anchor in Trinity Anchored Formation (TAF) offers to others—a sacred space to name and claim your identity, tame your personality, deepen your relationships, while experiencing a secure sense of belonging and purpose through the unconditional love of the Most Holy Trinity.
🛟⚓️ As I grew in self-acceptance and other awareness, I had to unlearn deeply ingrained communication patterns rooted in a variety of shutdown responses. My journey required learning to understand, interpret, and speak in the different languages each Trinity Colored ID℠ uniquely expressed. I had to learn how to communicate in ways that were less offensive and defensive, more understanding, more honest, and always rooted in honoring the other person, who thought, emoted, acted, and reacted differently than I did. It meant becoming an active listener with patience, with sensitivity to context, and with a heart of curiosity and compassion. However, in order to truly embody that kind of presence, I had to be transformed—from emotional resistance to emotional resilience. That shift began when I finally found the courage to face how my upbringing and background shaped the way I relate to others today. This realization—even now—calls for a daily renewal of my mind (Romans 12:2), for there are always strongholds to dismantle, God-holes to fill with grace, secrets to unveil, and new patterns to embrace. This path to wholeness that the Holy Spirit led me on—toward healing and redemption—would not have been possible without Jesus Heals Ministry. and several other treasured sources of grace. Through these, I began to reclaim the truth of my worth in God’s eyes—and to live from that truth, rather than against it. Being able to show up as someone who knows her own worth and live from that place has been one of the most defining turning points of my life. This formed TAF’s second ‘life preserving’ anchor—cultivating the capacity to communicate that flows from an inner knowing of worthiness.
🛟⚓️ As a wife of over 35 years, mother of six, parent-teacher, and homeschooling mentor, I’ve had the privilege of accompanying countless parents and teens, educating, advising, and coaching them through the highs and lows of family life. Later, through marriage ministry, I continued that work alongside couples and families, witnessing firsthand how grace can transform relationships when we begin to understand and honor each other’s God-given design. I saw grace in action as couples and parents grew in their awareness of the beauty of complementarity—recognizing that God had intentionally and wonderfully created each person to connect in uniquely different ways. With that recognition came a sacred invitation: to collaborate through their differences rather than be divided by them. In doing so, they built stronger marriages and more engaged families. This became TAF’s third ‘life preserving’ anchor—helping married couples, parents, grandparents, and caregivers grow in unity through deeper self- and other-awareness, and by embracing the divinely designed diversity within their relationships.
🛟⚓️ And finally, I’ve seen how fragile relationships can become when the core values, and innate needs, required for genuine intimacy go unrecognized or unmet. Emotional, spiritual, and relational intimacy cannot be sustained without clarity, alignment, and intentional effort. This evolved into TAF’s fourth ‘life preserving’ anchor—guiding individuals, couples, and families to uncover their God-given values and inborn needs, and to grow in the intimacy skills that creates a love that is not only sustainable—but sacred—with God, themselves, and one another.
I founded Trinity Anchored Formation to serve Catholic Christians like me, who’ve experienced the quiet, painful suffering of not belonging, cultural disconnection—whether in their domestic churches or broader communities, diminished human formation and spiritual restlessness. My coaching specializes in mindset work, identity, relationships, and mission preparation.
Whether you’re a spouse, parent, caregiver, convert to the Catholic faith, a repatriated adult Third Culture Kid (ATCK), or someone shaped by a fragmented family of origin—where the three fundamental needs of every human person—identity, belonging, and purpose were left unmet, or perhaps you’re simply navigating a transitional season of life and wrestling with the questions of what’s your next right step… please know you’re not alone!
Through faith-rooted frameworks, practical study tools, and one-on-one or group coaching, I help others move forward in life—from fragmentation to integration, from confusion to clarity, from separation to communion, and from feeling stuck to choosing the mindset that frees individuals to take the next right step. My work is grounded in Catholic theology, human formation, and the healing power of storytelling.
If you’ve ever felt unrooted, unseen, unloveable—caught between roles, cultures, or expectations—whether that be in your own family of origin, current marriage, among your in-laws, in the town you live in, or the Church you attend, please know—you are not without a home. You are not forgotten. You are not alone. You definitely are not insignificant. And you are not beyond healing.
And I would be honored to walk with you as you rediscover that truth.